Ecsta-She

Ecsta-She offers dance and movement and we specialise in sex counselling for couples.

What is Ecsta-She?

Based in Cairns, QLD, Australia, Ecsta-She is the love child of Velvet Eloise Eldred. Ecsta-She offers movement medicine and counselling. For women who want to dance with other women, Ecsta-She offers a sacred and healing space to restore the ecstatic feminine and create the modern goddess. For women and men who seek sex counselling, Velvet is an expressive therapist that helps lead couples to the divine sex that they seek.

Dance and counselling

Sex counselling for couples or singles is by appointment. Please make contact with Velvet Eldred via the contact page. Ecsta-She Dance is held every Wednesday night, 8 - 10 pm at the Body Mind and Breath Yoga Studio, 55 Spence St, Cairns.

ECSTASHE DANCE WORKSHOP

I am presenting a dance workshop 28 November in Cairns - venue to be determined.

I will go through the fundamentals of dance as a force to be reckoned with to move any limitation that no longer serves you. I will blend a bit of history, with theory, describe rhythm and facilitate dance exercises for the morning session. We will share a lunch with the arfternoon session dedicated to cutting up the groove on the dance floor, spreading our wings and moving our bodies, "sweating our prayers" (Gabrielle Roth).

The workshop will run from 11 - 4pm, will cost $100/$85 conc. Bookings essential- 0438 218 839....Min of 10, Max 16.
This will be the workshop that helps you realize why you love to dance and the connection to your divine and sexual authentic self.

Photo of Mistress Overdone

Tropical Arts Measure for Measure-    William Shakespeare

This was an amazing production process-30 people on stage aged 6 years - 67 years, high school drama students in cast and as technical crew, Indigenous actors, South Korean lighting designer, university students, professional actors and people who just love acting, also differently abled actors. Even my son is in this. A place for all and all have a place. Inclusive community. A melting pot of all sorts focussed on telling a ripping good yarn. Produced in manga style the show had people on their feet clapping closing night- an extra ordinary experience.
This project and the idea of inclusive community is dear to my heart- and at the expense of raving on- lot of love and care going on.....complete sovereinty of creative process as an actor, complete support from cast and production crew to accept all of me just as I am.
Look out for more Tropical Arts producitons.

Be bold and Beautiful

Hello world- well once again I disappeared into the world of theatre making, playing Mistress Overdone in Will Shakespeares Measure for Measure.....and what needs to be said today is
Women you are beautiful, you are born to radiate beauty, sexy aliveness, juicy glowing mystery, it is your birthright....so please STOP wearing DAGGY bra's and knickers. One does not have to spend a fortune, but get rid of the no elastic, washed til faded grungie undies. One can wear anything on top if the reveal shows underwear that makes you feel pretty, not functional....if it doesn't support you to feel beautiful, glamorous, sexy and want to drop your clothes - get rid of it....the end.

Revolutions-no where to hide......

"Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in square holes.....the one's who see things differently--they're not fond of rules.....You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things....they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the one's who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who usually do"  (Steve Jobs).

Ok so the point of this is my facebook is now connected to this blog so out it goes to all and sundry- I feel vulnerable and exposed as my private musings go really public- however I want a revolution. I want people included in this world because they are human beings- it's their birthright to dignity, joy, and respect. Not "Oh,lets make space cause their special"--GET OVER IT--We are all special- only me, only you can do the job that is you---and the reflection of the whole this authentic being brings is truly inspiring!

And I want a sexuality revolution-----higher vibrating-----orgasmic connected into the weave of life-----check out this world and the possiblilty it gives to constantly be in pleasure and bliss----even when it's not a pretty day, there is beauty to be breathed in.....I want to laugh, I want to wander around this city of Cairns and know we are shifting to an inclusive, liberated and joyful community.
so I am out there-putting myself out there----if you are ready to join a revolution and want to liberate yourself from anything that keeps you little, connect in with me.....

Where I Been???

As a professional artist who creates and producers theatre I have been off in that world......Finished directing Homo Apocolyptus with New York based Salvage theatre Co, have completed all the drumming and drama performanaces with differently abled people and am now off to work on the -
International Buskers Festival    -c u there....


Cast Photo: Paul Kauffman, Monica Wyche and Katie Weiland
Taken in "The Attic" Gilligans

Just keep moving

Gitama Buddha

Ecstasis- Greek "to move beyond Oneself"

After many attempts to sit and mediate, a young woman cracked a darky, and yelled to the Gods, "I can't do this shit!"- Disappointed, frustrated and angry with herself she cried, "There has to be another way." - The house grew still, and in her vision space she saw a wild woman swing through her doorway. This woman of Blue put her 8 arms on her hip leant forward and said, "So why don't you dance?" "Kali MA" she whispered. From that moment forth her blood whispered and she danced. She studied dance, explored the philosophies of authenticity and dance, sacred dance, she explored the meaning of sovereignty, compassion, power, integrity- in a form she instinctively knew - the dance.

It was this experience that lead me to the work of Gabrielle Roth and I found validation for my spirit, Sharron Rose, " The Path of the Priestess", and Amy Sophia Marashinky's, The Goddess Oracle, were sources for inspiration. I trained with Christina Demmler (Roth trained dancer), studied authentic dance and ecstatic dance. I took other women onto the dance floor and observed the transformation when I invoked sacred space as a shared inclusive community. We offer ourselves up to our primal languages- breath, movement, sound, colour and gesture. As the rhythm takes over us, a wave sweeps up from the floor connecting us to our inner authority, from this place we surrender our feet, ankles, calves, thighs, hips all the way up. Our spines loose and supple, our heads free of chatter, the dance of life is felt and expressed. I observed the shared union on the dance floor supporting expressions of fear, anger, grief, joy and compassion. I was told stories of how participants felt breath and life force seep back through their bones. The blood pumped and the tears flowed, anger stomped and chaos cracked open, how joy is freedom and compassion forgives. Images of stories known and unknown searched for release to find more essence of being.

Ecstatic dance is an ancient movement practice that has been revered as a way to meditate, evoke visionary experience and connect with spirit. It helps to restore the vital of energy of the body and recover lost parts of the soul in the process. By moving our bodies we are able to connect to the physical body-mind-heart and move the soul.....our dance is a reminder of the medicine we hold in our hearts, minds and bodies.......we connect to this power and the medicine moves and is moved by us.

Since this I have completed my counselling diplomas and Graduate Certificate in Artistic therapies through Sophia College (Steiner's 4 fold model of a human being mixed with Buddhist Psychotherapy framework). This creates a dynamic interweaving which creates a set of tools for authentic liberation.

"As above so below, as within as without"

Feelings are neither positive nor negative- they are simply forces in our own stories with their own vibration and function. This is where you practice to let it all go and surrender to your inner knowing, your rhythm and self, warts and all.

It is "rhythm who teaches us to find our own rhythm, as well as teaching respect for the rhythms of all others." In searching for Truth- we find that every life form has its own sacred space and rhythm." (Jamie Sands The 13 Original Clan Mothers.)

To enter sacred space is to say you are willing to dance to your own rhythm and claim all that you are.

"With rhythmic movements she organized as yet unformed elements making orderly patterns" Elrual.com

For inspiration Google: Gabrielle Roth, 5 rhythms dance, Sharron Rose, Ecstatic Dance, Sophia College, Saida Desilets, Rumi Poetry, Divine dance, Goddesses', Shematrix, Dakhini, Skydancer, Kundalini Dance

Arts for everyone

I have worked within the disability and disadvantaged fields for over 20 years, and in that time frame there has been much discussion about inclusion.

The arts-dance, music, drama, singing, and cross art forms are the tools that can show us how to value the unique expression of all beings. Its is not that artists are special people but that all people are special artists, who have their own expression of a point of veiw, of a story to tell, an insight or vision to be shared.
It is in this space that a person can find the ability to communicate without linear verbal language. It is in the arts space that safety is created for differences to be explored and valued. This offers the community and the world diversity of experienceas platform to share our humanity.

It is also in this art space that people who at times receive their world through rigid control mechanisms can find their voice. Sexuality, and a the right to experience sexuality's freedom is offered as a right to be discussed, expressed, danced, sung and made into theatre. 

 It is often shocking to concerned parents and guardians that this topic is so passionately celebrated in the arts. To dance is to feel alive and "sexy", to feel good about yourself, without the loud voices of judgement condeming you to be quiet and lack confidence, to make theatre is to explore human relationships and this involves sexuality. Sexuality is a part of who we are as a human being where we are experiencing a disability or not.